I have nearly no peripherials, so I have to run my new Rasperry completely headless. Here is what I did
Hardware: Raspberry Pi Model B 512MB, 16GB SD card class 10, Ethernet LAN cable, power adapter from a mobile phone, Windows 7 laptop, Windows XP laptop, wifi router
1. Operation system: I wrote the latest Raspbian release (2013-09-25) on a new 16GB SD card class 10 using win32diskmanager under Windows 7. I also did the checksum test. I read that this release has SSH activated by default.
2. Internet: My internet comes from a wifi router. I connected the Windows 7 laptop to a secured wifi network. Then I connected the Windows 7 and Windows XP latops via ethernet cable and enabled the wifi connection for sharing. I tried the ethernet connection on the Windows XP laptop and it worked. I also found the IP address (xxx.xxx.xxx.1) by typing ipconfig under Windows XP. On the Windows 7 laptop I was able to see this address when listing all connections under netstat and it also responded on ping xxx.xxx.xxx.1.
3. Raspberry startup: I first inserted the SD card, then the ethernet LAN cable and finally the power source. This was the first startup if this Raspberry. After some time PWR was red, FDX and LNK were green and 100 was orange.
4. SSH: Under Windows 7 I typed netstat but now I couldn't see an IP address for the Raspberry. However, when typing ping xxx.xxx.xxx.1 this address still responded. I tried to connect via Putty to xxx.xxx.xxx.1 on port 22 and it said "Network error: Connection refused".
Please help me! What I did wrong?