OK thanks for the tip.
Tried the other 2 settings, the forum somehow looses it's "character image" specially with the prosilver setting.
the third is a bit "over decorated" for my taste.
so I returned it to the default setting.....
"Don't come to me with 'issues' for I don't know how to deal with those
Come to me with 'problems' and I'll help you find solutions"
Some people be like:
"Help me! Am drowning! But dont you dare touch me nor come near me!"