First off, welcome to the Forum, and to the wonderful world of Raspberry Pi. And congratulations on starting the kids off right, a wise choice of gift.
I've not heard of
Vilros before; looks like their "
Raspberry Pi 3 Complete Starter Kit" comes with a Raspberry Pi 3, an appropriate power supply, a 16GB MicroSD card & adapter, HDMI cable, case, and heatsinks.
The Raspberry Pi will connect to any display (monitor or television) that has an HDMI port, and they've included the necessary HDMI cable. You'll also want a USB keyboard and mouse. I personally would probably not bother installing the heatsinks, but opinions vary on that.
There are a bunch of books, but I don't know of a particular one to recommend - I've had many years of Unix experience, and the Pi is basically a tiny Unix computer, so most of the territory was very familiar to me when I got here. I've found a lot of good information (and had many questions answered), here on this very forum. And Google and YouTube will find a ton of information, as will various parts of StackExchange, but one must be wary of following outdated tutorials (there are numerous helpful-looking pages out there patiently explaining step-by-step just exactly how to do something in what is now the wrong way).
For what it's worth, the Pi runs (well, by default, the most popular choice) an operating system called Raspbian, which is a Raspberry flavored variant of Debian, which is a version of Linux, which is a cousin of Unix. At some level, information for any/all of those can be relevant. If you know any variant of Unix, much will be familiar. If you know only Windows or Mac, it's a little bit like learning a foreign language - there are still verbs and nouns, but the details are all a bit different and it'll sound confusing at first (and just like learning a language, the very first one is hard, the second is confusing as many assumptions are proved wrong, but subsequent ones get easier as you figure out which concepts change and which are universal).