Ok, plan is to have several Pi's on the same network all bar 1 headless. The headless Pi's are meant to run 24/7 though there may be situations when I have to shut all of them down.
Rather than VNC to them 1 by 1 it'd be great if the headed Pi (call him the Boss) could say to the headless (bairns) it's time for bed. The bairns should reply OK Boss going to sleep now.
If all goes as expected Boss then switches of, if not he should report which bairn is not responding.
An "are you OK?" program would be nice as well. The Pi's will have fixed IP's on the network, all connected wirelessly (3b's or 0W's).