Try increasing GPU memory to 256.
JavaFX needs lots
I use Netbeans on a PC and network into the RPi.
Don't try putting Netbeans on the Pi, just too slow.
Run it on PC, Linux or Windows via network.
JavaFX takes over the screen so SSH makes it easier to debug etc.
I started with the Stopwatch example, cool 3D shadows on second hand.
BlueJay IDE looks good for on RPi Java developement but have not tested it for FX.
Look around for the JavaFX 8 book and others.
http://it-ebooks.info/book/3646/
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