Again, without going into the whole gynaecological thing again, the HDMI end you will need is male, as it fits inside the female HDMI socket on the Pi. At least, that is how it was explained to me in the sex education class at school.
Ah yes, for a single cable it would indeed need to be male HDMI to male DVI. I was talking about an adaptor; a one-piece female HDMI to male DVI plug, which you"d use in conjunction with a normal male-to-male HDMI cable.
There"s me trying to clarify things, and only adding more confusion!
Edit: This would work; or this plus this.