I'm assuming that this is a low-voltage DC solenoid (24Vdc).
Two points of note from someone who used to fix systems using electromechanical components:
Adding a snubber across the solenoid coil is the best method of protecting the control relay contacts. A snubber can either be a diode, RC filter or other more complex arrangement.
Adding a simple anti-parallel diode across the solenoid coil suppresses the additional back EMF to just +1V above the supply voltage, but will considerably increase the "opening" time of whatever it's mechanically connected to. When the relay contact opens, current in the solenoid coil decays as L/R, with the mechanical force proportional to the decaying current. The forward-biased diode is a "small" resistance, so the decay time is large. This causes the solenoid to release far more slowly than if it was simply open-circuited.
An RC filter can be used, but this requires tuning specific to the coil.
A cheap but best-fit solution is to use a diode-zener clamp - add a 10-20V zener diode in series opposition to the standard diode - this increases the effective resistance (and thus speed) of the snubber while clamping the voltage that the relay contacts will be exposed to.
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Rockets are loud.
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