Still running Raspbian Jessie or Stretch on some older Pi's (an A, B1, 2xB2, B+, P2B, 3xP0, P0W, 2xP3A+, P3B+, P3B, B+, and a A+) but Buster on the P4B's. See: https://www.cpmspectrepi.uk/raspberry_pi/raspiidx.htm
I saw it on Adafruit too, but couldn't find the actual picture when I made my post. Yeah, if you have the unassembled, solder it your self cobbler, you can swap the headers around so the Pi still has a male header. There are all kinds of options if you give it some thought before heating up your soldering iron.