Had a quick look on google shopping for stepper motor
Came up with
http://proto-pic.co.uk/stepper.....ith-cable/ at £12.96 as a reasonable price for one motor. However when I look at the torque I find reference to "holding torque" (anyone know what that is?) and is rated as Holding Torque : 2.3kg*cm. To explain this value I had a quick look here. Sounds promising … (Torque explained)
Had another quick look on ebay for stepper motors, quite a lot of results!
This Saab Climate Control stepper motor certainly looks beefy and cheap, but I'm struggling to find specification for it.
Then you would need some gearing. I am sure you get the basic principle of this but, say you had a motor that could lift 1KG at 1 meter / second and you attached a simple gear mechanism with 2 gears. Theoretically – One with 100 teeth and one with 10 teeth. You have the ten tooth gear been driven by the motor and the load attached to the 100 tooth gear then you are multiplying the amount of torque by 10 at the expense of the speed (which is now ten times less).
Worm drive gearing is especially good at this because the worm gear effectively only has 1 "tooth".
Gearing.
I'm thinking about grippers too.
If you just want them to stop when they encounter resistance you could just mount simple off / on micro switches on the gripper.
Or you could use some resistive material or some sort of pico type material that changes electronic properties when it's distorted. There's lots of ways, have a look at this for ideas