Mu pi is becoming the most annoying pi in the world...

I've started with the latest image from the website about 2 weeks ago (time to upgrade one of the very first releases of of the softfp OS).
Okay, run a portable DHCP server on my home computer.
Connected to the pi over SSH, did most of the configuration and wanted to test on my home network.
This was working for a short time, after a while connection lost, but this could be a connection issue.
So back to the computer... a bit problems but it worked.
Did some extra configuration, played with some iptables (but there aren't stored after a reboot).
The next day, tried again on the home network,... no success.
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To make the story a bit shorter, when I look into the DHCP log on my computer, it asks an old ip, from the home network.
DHCP rejects, because of different range and propose a new IP.
> Where old IP is saved in the pi? This may solve the problem.
To make it even more confusing:
Tried an old router, plugged in the pi, and the computer I can reach the pi, but time between username prompt en password prompt seems very slow.
Back to computer, not working dhcp, but pi request ip from old router...
Who can help me solve this problem please, a lot of work has been done to upgrade.