I received my Pi 4 B+ (2GB) today and proceeded to install Raspbian Buster on it and set it up to activate SSH and wifi on the SD card before inserting it into the Pi and booting up.
The problem I have is that VNCServer doesn't seem to be auto-starting at all. I've activated the service in raspi-config (both in the console via SSH AND in the GUI configuration version) and every time I reboot I have to connect via SSH, start the server in the command line with $ vncserver, then (and only then) can I connect with VNC Viewer... and only if I specify the display number (i.e. the usual IP address with ":1" at the end - never had to do that with the 3 B+, it was happy with just the IP address!)
I've tried adding 'vncserver' to rc.local, that just locks me out of the usual :1 address and sets up another (:2) which won't display in VNC Viewer.
Any one having the same problems? I'm seriously considering going back to the previous version of Raspbian at this rate...
