this is a example of my proyect https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cDbz4aw02E
i have a SSR relay with this spect

http://www.ebay.com/itm/Solid-State-Rel ... Sw-CpX~I~V
i put in this order in the raspberry
GND to point 4 of the relay
GPIO21 to point 3 of the relay
and the connection typical of the relay, now the problem is the relay send a red point in the circle of the input of the relay when i active the gpio ... but the lamp try flicker
what is the problem ??? i a new user in raspberry
any idea is welcome. Thanks.